The life of a teenager.

Life of a teenager, sounds interesting right? First love, first heart break , friendships, new people, new relationships , new lessons. This sounds lot of fun right and why wouldn't it? Everyone look forward to their teenage years so that they can enjoy it to the fullest

But is a teenagers life just full of fun? Are there any problems they face? Like the typical mindset is of people, they say " what problems can even a 14-15 year old have?" 

It's not really the truth. Teenagers might be small in age but they go through a lot of changes. They may have problems of their own which may seem small to the adults but is really big in real

The world is changing isn't it? Everyone is getting addicted to their phones and teenagers aren't any exception but have any parents of any teenager ever thought why my kid is always on phone? Maybe a few or maybe no one because you have to scold them for using phones right? You don't have time to talk to them why they are acting like this , am I right?

Maybe the love, time and support that you never gave to them, they are getting it by some stranger they met online. Maybe they are trying to hide their problems by playing games. Maybe they are trying to kill their loneliness by watching some series or movies.

If they are on their Phone 24×7, that doesn't mean they are dating my dear parents. Yes we teenagers are a lot different from.your generation but all we need is to be heard that's it .you take a step ahead, we will take two. 

If we are being anti social,that have some reason behind it. Try to understand us parents,it's not always a boyfriend or a girlfriend. It can be the pressure of the studies or maybe the broken friendship.

All we want is to be understood and heard. We want to be loved and not just be ignored as some kid who doesn't respect others or doesn't have any manners .

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