I am not a slut.

"you know she hangs out with boys all the time such a slut" " You know she is not a Virgin such a slut". " You know she has a boyfriend such a slut". "She sent me nudes such a slut". "she rejected me such a slut". "she agreed to date me so easily such a slut". "She slept with me such a slut". "she didn't agree to sleep with me such a slut" etc etc etc.

I never understood society neither I can ever. No matter what a girl does she is a slut or a whore. We have our hair cut short? We are sluts. We dress up in short clothes? We are sluts. We are more educated than boys around us? We are sluts. As long as we even violate one rule of society or go against them we are a slut. Dating? No where are your sanskars? Not a Virgin? Where are your sanskars? Rejected me? How dare she I am a man/boy,where are her sanskars? 

Society is such a hypocrite isn't it? A boy can lose his Virginity before marriage but if a girl does she is a slut. A boy can have girlfriends but if a girl starts dating she is a slut. A boy can use a girl or eve tease them and do anything they want without the girls consent but if a girl rejects a boy or tells Something bad to them ahh such a slut she is. A boy can smoke drink and curse but if a girl does this she is a slut. Such two faced standards

When are you going to change your mentality society? If there's a rape everyone will point out one thing " pure and sanskari girls doesn't roam around at night and doesn't wear small clothes" I just want to ask your if the boys can't keep their penis to themselves how is that a girls fault? Just to justify a guys fault you call a girl slut because who will even fight back? That girl is so weak and tender she will just get crushed without saying a word. No you are wrong, we will raise our voice.

We aren't sluts, whores or hoes. Yes I have guys friends. Yes I may have a boyfriend. Yes I wear short clothes. Yes I stay outside till late. Yes I talk to boys. Yes I rejected boys. So? That's my choice. Just because I don't complete your so called sanskari qualities I am not characterless.

Yes I was sexually abused. So? So what? That doesn't make me a slut or doesn't make me characterless. If you have time to call me a slut better teach the boys the meaning of what consent is. That a girls choice is theirs and their body is theirs not your property.

I am not a slut I am just a simple girl.

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